When you first get married its weird rearranging who is your first priority. For me it was my mom before. For a while after I got married I never really had to pick between the two. It was so nice! But eventually drama hit, not with my mom we are as close as ever!
It is so hard to put the baby and Jonny in front of the rest of my family! After a long break down, tons of chocolate, and advice from one of my sisters I was able to come to terms with the fact that my new family is now first. Me putting them first doesnt make me a bad person.
For the engaged and married couples: Readjusting who is the most important person in your life is hard but it has to be done eventually. I would start doing it sooner rather than later! So when drama hits it makes it alot easier to adjust! Just remember your family comes first!!!